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很多婚姻中的出轨是“我认为你出轨了”,如何破除典型婚姻心理误区

2019-07-29 10:42:02

 相守永远是比相爱要更为艰难,因为相爱是一种感觉,相守是一种模式的建立,需要你去经营,而越来越多的人对婚姻都具有一种担忧,而这种担忧会因为不同性格和经历去表现出来,而这种担忧会不断的去演化,直至将你经营的婚姻从内部破坏,有很多婚姻中的出轨是“我认为你出轨了”。

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其实在我们与人的相处中有一个心理叫投射性认同。炸金花手机版而这心理机制是被大部分人所忽略的,通俗一点来讲,就是说A把自己内部好的或坏的观点投射到B身上,从而认为B是好的或者是坏的,从而认为B是好的或者是坏的,而B又接受了他的投射幻想,以A心理所设想的方式来对待A,然后A就进一步验证了自己的假设,认为B就是他所想的那样的人。

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